Sunday, November 11, 2012

Arnold: The Education of a Bodybuilder - by Arnold Schwartzenegger

Arnold: The Education of a Bodybuilder
by Arnold Schwartzenegger

Arnold Schwartzenegger knew at an early age that he would become a bodybuilder.
Self-knowledge and goalsetting came first before the proving ground of the weightroom.
---Goals were regulative in nature.

He “loved” bodybuilding. Follow your bliss.

“Seeing new changes in my body, feeling them, turned me on. It was the first
time I'd ever felt every one of my muscles. It was the first time
those sensations had registered in my mind, the first time my
mind knew my thighs, calves and forearms were more than just
limbs. I felt the muscles in my triceps aching, and I knew why
they were called triceps—because there are three muscles in
there. They were all registered in my mind, written there with
sharp little jabs of pain. I learned that this pain meant progress.
Each time my muscles were sore from a workout, I knew they
were growing.”

Somatic awareness was intoxicating.

He blocked out the negative thoughts other people tried to put in his mind.

He always wanted to go to America and be in movies even as a teenager.

Being prodded and challenged by training partners was crucial.
Competition was invigorating for him.

“Girls became sex objects. I saw the other bodybuilders using
them in this way and I thought it was all right. We talked about
the pitfalls of romantic situations, serious ones, how it could take
away from your training. Naturally, I agreed with them. They
were my idols.”

He blocked out connections with women as they might divert attention away from his training.

He found his edge, his “genius” and he never turned his back on it for fleeting pleasures.

He was protective of his emotions while chasing his goals.

He “closed the door” on involvements.

“I started this practice early in my career and continued it for as
long as it served to help me maintain a clear focus and drive
myself toward a fixed point.”

Drive and focus were the most important things for Arnold.

“Whatever I thought might hold me back, I avoided. I crossed
girls off my list—except as tools for my sexual needs. I eliminated
my parents too. It seemed they always wanted to see me,
then when I was around they had nothing to say.”

Charge them to the game.

“The secret [to success] is contained in a three-part formula I learned in the
gym: self-confidence, a positive mental attitude, and honest hard
work.”

Reg Park----idealization of a model.
Goalsetting: become Reg Park.

“I was always honest about my weak points. This helped me
grow. I think it's the key to success in everything: be honest;
know where you're weak; admit it.”

Honesty is key. Focus on the reality of your situation.
No comforting delusions. No naivete.
No excuses.

If your focused is scattered you are leaking effort all over the place.
Find your goals.
Structure your life around those goals.
Focus will follow naturally.
Find your focus.
“Managing a health club was an entirely new experience. I was
supposed to be a trainer, to show people how to exercise, to
devise programs which would make them lose fat and rebuild
their bodies. At first, confronted with these people who'd come
to me for guidance, I felt helpless. I thought I still needed someone
giving me advice on my workouts. But I realized I had to do
it in order to survive.

I had to live a split life, acting as an instructor to the health
club clients on the one hand, and trying to train myself for the
Mr. Universe title on the other. It was frustrating. People who
would never benefit from what I told them kept taking my time.
They paid and came to the gym. But it was a disgusting, superficial
effort on their part. They merely went through the motions,
doing sissy workouts, pampering themselves. And there was so
much I wanted to do with those wasted hours.”

He disdained unfocused effort in himself, and so this projected outwards.
Disdain the lazy. Disdain the weak. Disdain the stupid.


“Working with Reg Park for that short time helped more than
anything to clear up the little confusions I had about the principles
of other champions. I learned that you can't really say, "You
must do this to get such and such a result." You have to try out
certain things and find out what is best for your own body. I
collected advice from Reg the whole time. I wrote it all down to
take back to Munich and use as it seemed to serve me best. In
the end, he promised he would invite me to South Africa the
next year to do an exhibition with him. But he said it was contingent
upon my winning Mr. Universe the coming year. He
thought I would win for sure—if I worked hard.”

Take advice from other people and adjust it to your situation. Finetune it. Find what works for you and do it.

Not only hard work, but theater and showmanship took him over the top.


He took ballet classes to learn how to pose; find alternate forms of knowledge and expertise that can give you a legup in your CENTRAL pursuit.

“Arnold,” I asked myself over and over, "What can you do to be
special and different?"

Find your edge in the world and live on it.

The point is, I was learning more and more about the mind,
about the power it has over the body. It meant having complete
communication with the muscles, always feeling what was happening
to my muscles the day after a workout. The most important
thing is that my mind was always in touch with my body; I
felt my muscles continuously; I always took an inventory before
working out. I flexed my muscles and got in touch. That not only
helped me train; it was like meditating. I locked my mind into
my muscle during training, as if I'd transplanted my mind into
the tissue itself. By just thinking about it, I could actually send
blood into a muscle.

I formalized it by regularly making an inventory. How does my
body feel now? I would ask myself. How does my chest feel?
What did I get out of this press behind the neck, doing ten repetitions
instead of five repetitions? How are my triceps? It doesn't
do any good to go through training like a blind man, to just go
through the motions. Motions mean nothing. You have to realize
what is happening to you. You have to want results.
Bodybuilders hung on to me like fleas, because they thought if
they did the same exercises I did they would get the same kind
of muscles. But I watched them fall away with absolutely no
results except exhaustion. They weren't mentally prepared for
intensive championship training; they weren't thinking about it.
I knew the secret: Concentrate while you're training. Do not
allow other thoughts to enter your mind.
It became part of my routine that year to start out every day
with total concentration. The way I did it was to play out exactly
what I was going to use, how I was going to pull my muscles,
and how I would feel it. I programmed myself. I saw myself
doing it; I imagined how I would feel it. I was thoroughly, totally
into it mentally. I did not waver at all.
When I went to the gym I got rid of every alien thought in my
mind. I tuned in to my body as though it were a musical instrument
I was about to play. In the dressing room I would start
thinking about training, about every body part, what I was going
to do, how I was going to pump up. I would concentrate on
procedure and results until my everyday problems went floating
away. I knew that if I went in there concerned about bills or girls
and let myself think about those things while doing bench
presses, I'd make only marginal progress. I'd seen guys reading
the newspaper between sets day after day, and they always
looked bad. Some of them had been going through the motions
of training for years, and you couldn't tell that they had ever
picked up a weight. It had been nothing more than some heartless
pantomime.

FOCUSED PRACTICE.
PASSIONATE PRACTICE.




I think the most important things I developed through bodybuilding
were my personality, confidence and character. When
you have a well-developed body and you're confident, you see
people bending your way, wanting to be on your side, wanting to
do things for you. When I was young I suffered from the same
insecurity every kid has. But as I transformed myself into something
strong and unique, discovering I could do one thing well,
confidence came to me naturally. And that gave me a great deal
of security.

ONE TALENT, ONE FORM OF GENIUS BLEEDS TO OTHER AREAS.

ACCOMPLISHMENT BREEDS CONFIDENCE.

ACCOMPLISHMENT IS THE BEST THING FOR CONFIDENCE.



I believe you overcome a lot of frustrations in the gymnasium,
things you're not even aware of. I found that the more I worked
out, the less violent I became. It trimmed away tensions and
taught me how to relax: When I put in a good workout I felt a
sense of accomplishment. I felt like a newborn person. I had the
strength to go on and conquer in other areas and feel confident
about doing it. It left me in kind of a low-key frame of mind, not
always desperate or anxious. Every day, I see people running
around, all excited, wanting to do things, feeling pent up and
unable to find any release. I'd probably be that way if I didn't
work off my frustrations in the gym. I've come to realize that
almost anything difficult, any challenge, takes time, patience and
hard work, like building up for a 300-pound bench press. Learning
that gave me plenty of positive energy to use later on.

I taught myself discipline, the strictest kind of discipline. How
to be totally in control of my body, how to control each individual
muscle. I could apply that discipline to everyday life. I used
it in acting, in going to school. Whenever I didn't want to study I
would just think back and remember what it took to be Mr. Universe—
the sacrifice, the hard work—and I would plunge myself
into studying.

Bodybuilding changed me entirely. I think I would be a different
person now if I'd never trained, if I'd just worked somewhere.
It gave me confidence and pride and an unlimited positive
attitude. I can apply my success to everything. One thing is
that people listen much more to bigger guys; the bigger you are
and the more impressive you look physically, the more people
listen and the better you can sell yourself or anything else. In
business school I saw a study of how many big companies in
America hire salesmen above a certain height and weight. Because
it has been proved that big people are more impressive
salespeople. They're more convincing. It's true. I found it out
myself, that I can persuade people easier than a small person can.




BODYBUILDING IS ABOUT CONTROL.
SOMATIC CONTROL.
THEN MIND CONTROL.
AND SELF-DISCLIPLINE.

The meaning of life is not simply to exist, to survive, but to move ahead, to go up, to achieve, to conquer.

INDIVIDUATION

ONE EDGE. ONE ABILITY. IS ALL YOU NEED.

MY EDGE: INTELLIGENCE. AN IQ of 150, BITCH.

Part II: Muscles

You must consider that in the beginning you are training the
mind as well as the body. The mind, after all, makes you want to
train; it turns on the body. Because the mind motivates you to
train the body, you have to train the mind first. If the mind
doesn't want to lift weights, the body won't lift them.

The mind is incredible. Once you've gained mastery over it,
channeling its powers positively for your purposes, you can do
anything. I mean anything. The secret is to make your mind
work for you—not against you. This means constantly being positive,
constantly setting up challenges you can meet—either today,
next week, or next month. "I can't. . ." should be permanently
stricken from your vocabulary, especially the vocabulary
of your thoughts. You must see yourself always growing and
improving.

You should strive to improve your body a little bit at a time.
Don't push the mind too much either; let the mind stay hungry
for more, tease the mind a little bit. This is why I suggest you
start small, with a fairly easy program. Let the body say to the
mind, "I feel good, this isn't too hard. I'm ready for more!" Give
it more, give it a little bit more. Then, slowly, as the mind is
ready for it, you can increase the amount of weight you use and
the number of repetitions you do of an exercise.

***
A Reason

You should know why you are going to start training. This is
one of the most important steps in initiating a successful bodybuilding
program. You should not go to the gym because somebody
says, "Hey, you're a slob. You ought to do some weight
training and get in shape." That isn't a good reason, because you
would be trying to satisfy someone else's wishes, not your own.
You should have a very good reason why you want to get into
weight resistance training. The best thing to do is to sit down
and say to yourself, "What do I want to get out of it? What is my
goal?"

Be honest. Honesty is the key to how much you can improve.
Your reason could be that you want to be a bodybuilder, a competitive
bodybuilder. That will certainly get you started training.
But even if you only want to lose a few inches around the waist,
you should be very explicit and spell it out for yourself. "The
reason I want to do this weight training is that I want to lose this
waist. I look in the mirror, it looks horrible." Or, "I'm a doctor
and when my patients look at me I know they're thinking, 'What
kind of example is he setting?' " Whatever your reason is, write
it down and put it where you'll see it in the months to come.

Next you have to decide what you want to look like. Again, be
explicit. My own image was Reg Park. I built it so clearly in my
mind I could actually see myself standing in Reg Park's body.
This second step, forming an image in the mind, creates what I
call the want power. You have an image of what you want to look
like, which in turn creates the willpower to go into the gym and
work out. Now you have a goal. Without it you'd be like a ship
without a destination. You must know why you are training in
order to give it your best and be productive.
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SO TAKEAWAY.

Step 1. Set a goal for your body. An image. A model.

Step 2. Be honest about your weaknesses.

Step 3. Schedule a routine.

Step 4. Do what you need to in order to clear your mind and focus during workouts. Cut out all distractions.

Step 5. Do it.

-Note: applicable to all things, not just bodybuilding.

The Mack Within - by Tariq Nasheed

The Mack Within
by Tariq Nasheed


Being a mack, as defined as being motivated by power and money, is an endeavor whose results are predominantly determined by one’s attitude rather than one’s actions.

Attitude first
Actions second. They flow from the attitude.

One’s actions flows from one’s attitude [wax shaped by a mold].

Mackin’ uses logic rather than emotion. Emotion is shunted out or delayed, in favor of control and strategy.

ALWAYS BE TACTFUL.
ASSESS A SITUATION AND.... USE TACT ALWAYS.

To be a mack requires integrity. Being oneself. “Knowing who you are.”

Qualify your audience before you mack to them. Your audience must be receptive to your effort and will.

Prioritize tact over truth.

Never follow your woman.

Upgrade your game and reinvent yourself.

Require your females to bring more to the table than sexual gratification.

The mackin’ game is not about ego or emotions -- it’s about logic. You mack from your mind not from your heart; you do not get your heart involved in these outcomes.

Too many men have internalized the edicts of the feminine imperative. They are ultimately punished, not rewarded, for having done so.

Mackin’ starts in the mind and it starts-- now. How you see yourself in your own mind is how others see you too.

If you see yourself as a sucker, or as insecure, then others will see you that way too. But if you see yourself as a boss player, people will treat you like one too.

Confidence is a must. The most important thing for a mack is his self-confidence.

“When you have confidence, it shows not only in your words, but in your nonverbal cues, as well. People always come up to me asking for clever pick-up lines to use on women. And I tell them, it’s not about pick-up lines. It’s about having confidence. I can tell some guys what to say verbatim, but if they don’t have the confidence to back up those words, they are going to get shut down by females anyway.”
p. 22

A mack has his priorities straight -- occupation, ride, crib, looks. Rectify your shortcomings rather than mask them. You can’t mack properly if you don’t have your business handled.

Develop your game. Develop yourself. Females are always going to be there.

Aspects of a mack:
-Gift of gab.
-Charisma.
-Know how to respond. Don’t get flustered. Drop responses effortlessly.
-Be serious but also know how to let loose and have fun.
-You can help out a female but only if she would do the same for you.
-Have a look and have pride in your look.
-Know how to hit it.
-When you flex your knowledge be subtle about it. Don’t focus so intently on it.


The Urban Renaissance Man has:
   -charisma    like the smooth brother
   -life direction     handled like the serious brother
   -sensitivity    like the simp
   -provision     like the save-a-ho
   -image    like the sassy brother
   -cooperation    like the scavenger
   -numbers game   like the scrub    
   -animal sexuality    like the thug


A mack must value himself. You must disregard most advice on dating and relationships that comes from females, for they only present the rose-tinted, utopian vision rather than the brutal realities.


-How Mothers Program Their Sons to Be Tricks and Their Daughters to Be Hoes

   Most mothers teach their sons to venerate females as life’s highest primacy as a sort of exultation for their own egos, and perhaps to enmesh these males with them as surrogate husbands.

   Men are taught by their emasculating mothers that women are a prize.

   Men are taught that anyone with a vagina should be highly valued.

   This programs men to worship female sexuality.

   Men are given no other reason for the necessity of their giving indiscriminate respect and value to females other than the fact that they have different sexual organs.

   The reality is that men should not be taught to respect all women, because not all women are worthy of respect, just as not all men are worthy of respect. Respect is not a given. It is something you earn.

   Women on the other hand are taught to get as much as they can from the men they date.


-Your Value as a Man Increases with Time
Men are valued for their knowledge and game, women for their female attributes.

-Value Your Dick.

   As a mack, you don’t just stick your dick up in any broad. When you step to women who are below your standards, you give yourself the subconscious message that you are not worthy of a quality woman and that you don’t deserve someone better.
   You as a man have two seeds you plant in a woman:    One is game. The verbal knowledge you plant in her mind.
   The second is sperm.

   When you are in a relationship with a woman, she should follow your lead. You make your thoughts, views, game, and knowledge her views as well. You must plant your ideology in her mind.
   
   When you grasp the importance of your seeds and how valueable they are, you will have gained full mackdown.

   Women like a man who knows his value. They like a man who won’t bow down to them for giving them sex. They like the challenge of being with a man who knows his value, and who makes his woman earn his attention and devotion.
   Know your importance and value as a man. If you want to be treated like a king, you have to act like one. Have standards.

Fashionable women are attention freaks. They are insecure, exteriorized followers.


Ch. 5 Rules of the Game

1. Don’t talk down on another player.

2. Never use sympathy to try to pull females.
Happens when the person is too enmeshed with the mother and is used to using sympathy to get everything.

When a guy complains about how tough his life is, it just looks weak.

Mackin’ represents strength, which comes from you, not from your woman. You are mentally strong enough to lead yourself around, and women notice your leadership qualities. Leadership is considered an attractive quality in a male.

3. Always let females know you have other options in subtle ways.

You have no options at the DMV, which is why they treat you like shit.

Let her know she’s not doing you any favors just by being in the picture.

Also women like winning over someone who’s in demand with other ladies.

Women are competitive with one another and winning you over gratifies her ego.

Being desirable -- generally desirable -- goes a long way with women.


4. Always be a mystery.

Personify exceptional qualities, or the illusion of exceptional qualities. You are greater than a merely mortal man.

Be there, be awesome, then be gone.

Let females project their desires onto you by keeping your fucking mouth shut.


5. You must let a female choose you.

Don’t chase females. Be in circulation and have enough game so that you are chosen. If you have to jump through hoops for a female to vibe with you, chances are she doesn’t like you.

As a mack you have to start “posin to be chosen.” Put yourself in a position to be chosen, then read women correctly -- both verbal and nonverbal language. Some women choose men in subtle ways, and some women choose men. They might come up to you and compliment you on what you’re wearing. Or they might give you a glance or a seductive stare. Pick up on them and react accordingly.

Whenever you catch a female doing some subtle choosing, you can feel her out by stepping to her on a courteous level. Throw a simple, “Hello, how ya doin’” Monitor her reaction. If it’s warm and receptive, then that’s her way of choosing you.

If she gives you attention start gaming and conversating. It’s happened before you dumbass.


6. Put Your Dick in Your Pocket

Have your dick out of the way when you’re spitting game.

You have to have her choose, and have her chase. By being somewhat unattainable.

7. Be Independent

8. Never spend more than $50 on a first date.

9. Assume that a woman under 27 has others in the picture.

Women don’t sit at home locked up like hermits like you do. They have a primal need for security and sex. And they take booty calls.

Don’t be upset up other guys are hollering at her. They are her backups and a woman always has backups.


Ch. 6 How to Step to Females

The correct state of mind. Game, game, game is what works.

You have to be tactful and tailor your approach to the situation. Adjust your speed.


Types of girls:

Bar wench: in their minds, it’s a game, and how desirable they are is based on the number of guys they can persuade to buy them drinks.

Attention freaks: dressed too slutty, they’re after attention, and go in packs of four or five. Macks aren’t there to pump up egos.

See, a mack must mingle. You have to keep it moving. A
mack's game is like water. He has to let it flow throughout the club.
You can't stand in one place and let your game sit like a puddle,
hoping that a female might walk by and step in it. You have to
work the room and douse females with little droplets of your
game. You do this by stepping to a number of females on the courtesy
level.

Just step to females with a quick, simple, "How are you tonight?",
"Are you having a good time so far?", "Cool, I'll talk to you
in a minute." Using that simple ten-second exchange is like sprinkling
the females with a little water of your game. It also accomplishes
other things. It gives you a chance to read the female's vibe
and helps tell the female whether you are really interested in her. It
shows that you are confident enough to step to a female without
saying or doing anything that will put mildew on your game. Most
importantly, it eliminates the possibility of rejection.

Talk to em on OKC. All of em.

Rules of a mack.
-Accept when something isn’t working. Don’t be in denial.

-Take your game on the road to where it’s appropriate.

-Demand respect at all times.
   -Options, plates. If she knows she can be replaced, she’ll act right.

-Work on people you actually might like.

-Don’t accept anything at face value.

-Use absence to increase desire. Don’t become familiar and predictable.

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Mackin’ isn’t about vendettas or revenge. That’s a waste of energy. The mackin’ game is about tact and strategy. If something isn’t working for you, take responsibility for it.

Mackin’ isn’t about overcoming a challenge.

It’s about switching up techniques.

If you’re going to move forward with your game, you can’t keep bumping into a brick wall over and over, wishing that it wasn’t there. You need to back up and take another route sometimes.

Have the drive, courage, and determination to set big goals and reach them.

Don’t let any form of disrespect go unchecked. Women have a natural tendency to rebel against male authority. Not for any reason. It’s just in their nature. That’s why you need options.

Spend time with women who are enticing to you, who aren’t full of emotional baggage. Spend time on stallions, not donkeys.

A mack should be bold in his decisions. Never be unsure or indecisive. You want to have all the hallmarks of leadership, something women find attractive.

Know what your agenda is.

Bold decision-making gives the appearance of confidence. Women don’t respect indecisive men. Indecision makes you look weak, and the essence of a mack is strength. Boldness will trump over logic. Appear to know what you’re talking about.

When you make plans with women, be captain of the team.


Ch. 8 - Lessons from the Pimpin World

Earn/Reward Method

-Meet a female and have her invest something in you. Have her bring something else to the table.

-Above all, have her earn your affection.


Mysterious Mack

-The less she knows about you, the more she can project her fantasies onto you. Become a secretive, ambiguous figure in her eyes.

-A mysterious guy that they knew little about. Keep your encounters a secret.

-Become a blank canvas.
-Remember when Donna was like, “Oh, is it because you’re a writer?”


Ch. 9 - Upgrading Your Game
-Have cool hair.
-Have cool shoes. Critical. --Shoes are a nonverbal message. They represent standpoint.

Every time you’re about to do something, as yourself is this a mack behavior?