The Mack Within
by Tariq Nasheed
Being a mack, as defined as being motivated by power and money, is an endeavor whose results are predominantly determined by one’s attitude rather than one’s actions.
Attitude first
Actions second. They flow from the attitude.
One’s actions flows from one’s attitude [wax shaped by a mold].
Mackin’ uses logic rather than emotion. Emotion is shunted out or delayed, in favor of control and strategy.
ALWAYS BE TACTFUL.
ASSESS A SITUATION AND.... USE TACT ALWAYS.
To be a mack requires integrity. Being oneself. “Knowing who you are.”
Qualify your audience before you mack to them. Your audience must be receptive to your effort and will.
Prioritize tact over truth.
Never follow your woman.
Upgrade your game and reinvent yourself.
Require your females to bring more to the table than sexual gratification.
The mackin’ game is not about ego or emotions -- it’s about logic. You mack from your mind not from your heart; you do not get your heart involved in these outcomes.
Too many men have internalized the edicts of the feminine imperative. They are ultimately punished, not rewarded, for having done so.
Mackin’ starts in the mind and it starts-- now. How you see yourself in your own mind is how others see you too.
If you see yourself as a sucker, or as insecure, then others will see you that way too. But if you see yourself as a boss player, people will treat you like one too.
Confidence is a must. The most important thing for a mack is his self-confidence.
“When you have confidence, it shows not only in your words, but in your nonverbal cues, as well. People always come up to me asking for clever pick-up lines to use on women. And I tell them, it’s not about pick-up lines. It’s about having confidence. I can tell some guys what to say verbatim, but if they don’t have the confidence to back up those words, they are going to get shut down by females anyway.”
p. 22
A mack has his priorities straight -- occupation, ride, crib, looks. Rectify your shortcomings rather than mask them. You can’t mack properly if you don’t have your business handled.
Develop your game. Develop yourself. Females are always going to be there.
Aspects of a mack:
-Gift of gab.
-Charisma.
-Know how to respond. Don’t get flustered. Drop responses effortlessly.
-Be serious but also know how to let loose and have fun.
-You can help out a female but only if she would do the same for you.
-Have a look and have pride in your look.
-Know how to hit it.
-When you flex your knowledge be subtle about it. Don’t focus so intently on it.
The Urban Renaissance Man has:
-charisma like the smooth brother
-life direction handled like the serious brother
-sensitivity like the simp
-provision like the save-a-ho
-image like the sassy brother
-cooperation like the scavenger
-numbers game like the scrub
-animal sexuality like the thug
A mack must value himself. You must disregard most advice on dating and relationships that comes from females, for they only present the rose-tinted, utopian vision rather than the brutal realities.
-How Mothers Program Their Sons to Be Tricks and Their Daughters to Be Hoes
Most mothers teach their sons to venerate females as life’s highest primacy as a sort of exultation for their own egos, and perhaps to enmesh these males with them as surrogate husbands.
Men are taught by their emasculating mothers that women are a prize.
Men are taught that anyone with a vagina should be highly valued.
This programs men to worship female sexuality.
Men are given no other reason for the necessity of their giving indiscriminate respect and value to females other than the fact that they have different sexual organs.
The reality is that men should not be taught to respect all women, because not all women are worthy of respect, just as not all men are worthy of respect. Respect is not a given. It is something you earn.
Women on the other hand are taught to get as much as they can from the men they date.
-Your Value as a Man Increases with Time
Men are valued for their knowledge and game, women for their female attributes.
-Value Your Dick.
As a mack, you don’t just stick your dick up in any broad. When you step to women who are below your standards, you give yourself the subconscious message that you are not worthy of a quality woman and that you don’t deserve someone better.
You as a man have two seeds you plant in a woman: One is game. The verbal knowledge you plant in her mind.
The second is sperm.
When you are in a relationship with a woman, she should follow your lead. You make your thoughts, views, game, and knowledge her views as well. You must plant your ideology in her mind.
When you grasp the importance of your seeds and how valueable they are, you will have gained full mackdown.
Women like a man who knows his value. They like a man who won’t bow down to them for giving them sex. They like the challenge of being with a man who knows his value, and who makes his woman earn his attention and devotion.
Know your importance and value as a man. If you want to be treated like a king, you have to act like one. Have standards.
Fashionable women are attention freaks. They are insecure, exteriorized followers.
Ch. 5 Rules of the Game
1. Don’t talk down on another player.
2. Never use sympathy to try to pull females.
Happens when the person is too enmeshed with the mother and is used to using sympathy to get everything.
When a guy complains about how tough his life is, it just looks weak.
Mackin’ represents strength, which comes from you, not from your woman. You are mentally strong enough to lead yourself around, and women notice your leadership qualities. Leadership is considered an attractive quality in a male.
3. Always let females know you have other options in subtle ways.
You have no options at the DMV, which is why they treat you like shit.
Let her know she’s not doing you any favors just by being in the picture.
Also women like winning over someone who’s in demand with other ladies.
Women are competitive with one another and winning you over gratifies her ego.
Being desirable -- generally desirable -- goes a long way with women.
4. Always be a mystery.
Personify exceptional qualities, or the illusion of exceptional qualities. You are greater than a merely mortal man.
Be there, be awesome, then be gone.
Let females project their desires onto you by keeping your fucking mouth shut.
5. You must let a female choose you.
Don’t chase females. Be in circulation and have enough game so that you are chosen. If you have to jump through hoops for a female to vibe with you, chances are she doesn’t like you.
As a mack you have to start “posin to be chosen.” Put yourself in a position to be chosen, then read women correctly -- both verbal and nonverbal language. Some women choose men in subtle ways, and some women choose men. They might come up to you and compliment you on what you’re wearing. Or they might give you a glance or a seductive stare. Pick up on them and react accordingly.
Whenever you catch a female doing some subtle choosing, you can feel her out by stepping to her on a courteous level. Throw a simple, “Hello, how ya doin’” Monitor her reaction. If it’s warm and receptive, then that’s her way of choosing you.
If she gives you attention start gaming and conversating. It’s happened before you dumbass.
6. Put Your Dick in Your Pocket
Have your dick out of the way when you’re spitting game.
You have to have her choose, and have her chase. By being somewhat unattainable.
7. Be Independent
8. Never spend more than $50 on a first date.
9. Assume that a woman under 27 has others in the picture.
Women don’t sit at home locked up like hermits like you do. They have a primal need for security and sex. And they take booty calls.
Don’t be upset up other guys are hollering at her. They are her backups and a woman always has backups.
Ch. 6 How to Step to Females
The correct state of mind. Game, game, game is what works.
You have to be tactful and tailor your approach to the situation. Adjust your speed.
Types of girls:
Bar wench: in their minds, it’s a game, and how desirable they are is based on the number of guys they can persuade to buy them drinks.
Attention freaks: dressed too slutty, they’re after attention, and go in packs of four or five. Macks aren’t there to pump up egos.
See, a mack must mingle. You have to keep it moving. A
mack's game is like water. He has to let it flow throughout the club.
You can't stand in one place and let your game sit like a puddle,
hoping that a female might walk by and step in it. You have to
work the room and douse females with little droplets of your
game. You do this by stepping to a number of females on the courtesy
level.
Just step to females with a quick, simple, "How are you tonight?",
"Are you having a good time so far?", "Cool, I'll talk to you
in a minute." Using that simple ten-second exchange is like sprinkling
the females with a little water of your game. It also accomplishes
other things. It gives you a chance to read the female's vibe
and helps tell the female whether you are really interested in her. It
shows that you are confident enough to step to a female without
saying or doing anything that will put mildew on your game. Most
importantly, it eliminates the possibility of rejection.
Talk to em on OKC. All of em.
Rules of a mack.
-Accept when something isn’t working. Don’t be in denial.
-Take your game on the road to where it’s appropriate.
-Demand respect at all times.
-Options, plates. If she knows she can be replaced, she’ll act right.
-Work on people you actually might like.
-Don’t accept anything at face value.
-Use absence to increase desire. Don’t become familiar and predictable.
112
Mackin’ isn’t about vendettas or revenge. That’s a waste of energy. The mackin’ game is about tact and strategy. If something isn’t working for you, take responsibility for it.
Mackin’ isn’t about overcoming a challenge.
It’s about switching up techniques.
If you’re going to move forward with your game, you can’t keep bumping into a brick wall over and over, wishing that it wasn’t there. You need to back up and take another route sometimes.
Have the drive, courage, and determination to set big goals and reach them.
Don’t let any form of disrespect go unchecked. Women have a natural tendency to rebel against male authority. Not for any reason. It’s just in their nature. That’s why you need options.
Spend time with women who are enticing to you, who aren’t full of emotional baggage. Spend time on stallions, not donkeys.
A mack should be bold in his decisions. Never be unsure or indecisive. You want to have all the hallmarks of leadership, something women find attractive.
Know what your agenda is.
Bold decision-making gives the appearance of confidence. Women don’t respect indecisive men. Indecision makes you look weak, and the essence of a mack is strength. Boldness will trump over logic. Appear to know what you’re talking about.
When you make plans with women, be captain of the team.
Ch. 8 - Lessons from the Pimpin World
Earn/Reward Method
-Meet a female and have her invest something in you. Have her bring something else to the table.
-Above all, have her earn your affection.
Mysterious Mack
-The less she knows about you, the more she can project her fantasies onto you. Become a secretive, ambiguous figure in her eyes.
-A mysterious guy that they knew little about. Keep your encounters a secret.
-Become a blank canvas.
-Remember when Donna was like, “Oh, is it because you’re a writer?”
Ch. 9 - Upgrading Your Game
-Have cool hair.
-Have cool shoes. Critical. --Shoes are a nonverbal message. They represent standpoint.
Every time you’re about to do something, as yourself is this a mack behavior?
by Tariq Nasheed
Being a mack, as defined as being motivated by power and money, is an endeavor whose results are predominantly determined by one’s attitude rather than one’s actions.
Attitude first
Actions second. They flow from the attitude.
One’s actions flows from one’s attitude [wax shaped by a mold].
Mackin’ uses logic rather than emotion. Emotion is shunted out or delayed, in favor of control and strategy.
ALWAYS BE TACTFUL.
ASSESS A SITUATION AND.... USE TACT ALWAYS.
To be a mack requires integrity. Being oneself. “Knowing who you are.”
Qualify your audience before you mack to them. Your audience must be receptive to your effort and will.
Prioritize tact over truth.
Never follow your woman.
Upgrade your game and reinvent yourself.
Require your females to bring more to the table than sexual gratification.
The mackin’ game is not about ego or emotions -- it’s about logic. You mack from your mind not from your heart; you do not get your heart involved in these outcomes.
Too many men have internalized the edicts of the feminine imperative. They are ultimately punished, not rewarded, for having done so.
Mackin’ starts in the mind and it starts-- now. How you see yourself in your own mind is how others see you too.
If you see yourself as a sucker, or as insecure, then others will see you that way too. But if you see yourself as a boss player, people will treat you like one too.
Confidence is a must. The most important thing for a mack is his self-confidence.
“When you have confidence, it shows not only in your words, but in your nonverbal cues, as well. People always come up to me asking for clever pick-up lines to use on women. And I tell them, it’s not about pick-up lines. It’s about having confidence. I can tell some guys what to say verbatim, but if they don’t have the confidence to back up those words, they are going to get shut down by females anyway.”
p. 22
A mack has his priorities straight -- occupation, ride, crib, looks. Rectify your shortcomings rather than mask them. You can’t mack properly if you don’t have your business handled.
Develop your game. Develop yourself. Females are always going to be there.
Aspects of a mack:
-Gift of gab.
-Charisma.
-Know how to respond. Don’t get flustered. Drop responses effortlessly.
-Be serious but also know how to let loose and have fun.
-You can help out a female but only if she would do the same for you.
-Have a look and have pride in your look.
-Know how to hit it.
-When you flex your knowledge be subtle about it. Don’t focus so intently on it.
The Urban Renaissance Man has:
-charisma like the smooth brother
-life direction handled like the serious brother
-sensitivity like the simp
-provision like the save-a-ho
-image like the sassy brother
-cooperation like the scavenger
-numbers game like the scrub
-animal sexuality like the thug
A mack must value himself. You must disregard most advice on dating and relationships that comes from females, for they only present the rose-tinted, utopian vision rather than the brutal realities.
-How Mothers Program Their Sons to Be Tricks and Their Daughters to Be Hoes
Most mothers teach their sons to venerate females as life’s highest primacy as a sort of exultation for their own egos, and perhaps to enmesh these males with them as surrogate husbands.
Men are taught by their emasculating mothers that women are a prize.
Men are taught that anyone with a vagina should be highly valued.
This programs men to worship female sexuality.
Men are given no other reason for the necessity of their giving indiscriminate respect and value to females other than the fact that they have different sexual organs.
The reality is that men should not be taught to respect all women, because not all women are worthy of respect, just as not all men are worthy of respect. Respect is not a given. It is something you earn.
Women on the other hand are taught to get as much as they can from the men they date.
-Your Value as a Man Increases with Time
Men are valued for their knowledge and game, women for their female attributes.
-Value Your Dick.
As a mack, you don’t just stick your dick up in any broad. When you step to women who are below your standards, you give yourself the subconscious message that you are not worthy of a quality woman and that you don’t deserve someone better.
You as a man have two seeds you plant in a woman: One is game. The verbal knowledge you plant in her mind.
The second is sperm.
When you are in a relationship with a woman, she should follow your lead. You make your thoughts, views, game, and knowledge her views as well. You must plant your ideology in her mind.
When you grasp the importance of your seeds and how valueable they are, you will have gained full mackdown.
Women like a man who knows his value. They like a man who won’t bow down to them for giving them sex. They like the challenge of being with a man who knows his value, and who makes his woman earn his attention and devotion.
Know your importance and value as a man. If you want to be treated like a king, you have to act like one. Have standards.
Fashionable women are attention freaks. They are insecure, exteriorized followers.
Ch. 5 Rules of the Game
1. Don’t talk down on another player.
2. Never use sympathy to try to pull females.
Happens when the person is too enmeshed with the mother and is used to using sympathy to get everything.
When a guy complains about how tough his life is, it just looks weak.
Mackin’ represents strength, which comes from you, not from your woman. You are mentally strong enough to lead yourself around, and women notice your leadership qualities. Leadership is considered an attractive quality in a male.
3. Always let females know you have other options in subtle ways.
You have no options at the DMV, which is why they treat you like shit.
Let her know she’s not doing you any favors just by being in the picture.
Also women like winning over someone who’s in demand with other ladies.
Women are competitive with one another and winning you over gratifies her ego.
Being desirable -- generally desirable -- goes a long way with women.
4. Always be a mystery.
Personify exceptional qualities, or the illusion of exceptional qualities. You are greater than a merely mortal man.
Be there, be awesome, then be gone.
Let females project their desires onto you by keeping your fucking mouth shut.
5. You must let a female choose you.
Don’t chase females. Be in circulation and have enough game so that you are chosen. If you have to jump through hoops for a female to vibe with you, chances are she doesn’t like you.
As a mack you have to start “posin to be chosen.” Put yourself in a position to be chosen, then read women correctly -- both verbal and nonverbal language. Some women choose men in subtle ways, and some women choose men. They might come up to you and compliment you on what you’re wearing. Or they might give you a glance or a seductive stare. Pick up on them and react accordingly.
Whenever you catch a female doing some subtle choosing, you can feel her out by stepping to her on a courteous level. Throw a simple, “Hello, how ya doin’” Monitor her reaction. If it’s warm and receptive, then that’s her way of choosing you.
If she gives you attention start gaming and conversating. It’s happened before you dumbass.
6. Put Your Dick in Your Pocket
Have your dick out of the way when you’re spitting game.
You have to have her choose, and have her chase. By being somewhat unattainable.
7. Be Independent
8. Never spend more than $50 on a first date.
9. Assume that a woman under 27 has others in the picture.
Women don’t sit at home locked up like hermits like you do. They have a primal need for security and sex. And they take booty calls.
Don’t be upset up other guys are hollering at her. They are her backups and a woman always has backups.
Ch. 6 How to Step to Females
The correct state of mind. Game, game, game is what works.
You have to be tactful and tailor your approach to the situation. Adjust your speed.
Types of girls:
Bar wench: in their minds, it’s a game, and how desirable they are is based on the number of guys they can persuade to buy them drinks.
Attention freaks: dressed too slutty, they’re after attention, and go in packs of four or five. Macks aren’t there to pump up egos.
See, a mack must mingle. You have to keep it moving. A
mack's game is like water. He has to let it flow throughout the club.
You can't stand in one place and let your game sit like a puddle,
hoping that a female might walk by and step in it. You have to
work the room and douse females with little droplets of your
game. You do this by stepping to a number of females on the courtesy
level.
Just step to females with a quick, simple, "How are you tonight?",
"Are you having a good time so far?", "Cool, I'll talk to you
in a minute." Using that simple ten-second exchange is like sprinkling
the females with a little water of your game. It also accomplishes
other things. It gives you a chance to read the female's vibe
and helps tell the female whether you are really interested in her. It
shows that you are confident enough to step to a female without
saying or doing anything that will put mildew on your game. Most
importantly, it eliminates the possibility of rejection.
Talk to em on OKC. All of em.
Rules of a mack.
-Accept when something isn’t working. Don’t be in denial.
-Take your game on the road to where it’s appropriate.
-Demand respect at all times.
-Options, plates. If she knows she can be replaced, she’ll act right.
-Work on people you actually might like.
-Don’t accept anything at face value.
-Use absence to increase desire. Don’t become familiar and predictable.
112
Mackin’ isn’t about vendettas or revenge. That’s a waste of energy. The mackin’ game is about tact and strategy. If something isn’t working for you, take responsibility for it.
Mackin’ isn’t about overcoming a challenge.
It’s about switching up techniques.
If you’re going to move forward with your game, you can’t keep bumping into a brick wall over and over, wishing that it wasn’t there. You need to back up and take another route sometimes.
Have the drive, courage, and determination to set big goals and reach them.
Don’t let any form of disrespect go unchecked. Women have a natural tendency to rebel against male authority. Not for any reason. It’s just in their nature. That’s why you need options.
Spend time with women who are enticing to you, who aren’t full of emotional baggage. Spend time on stallions, not donkeys.
A mack should be bold in his decisions. Never be unsure or indecisive. You want to have all the hallmarks of leadership, something women find attractive.
Know what your agenda is.
Bold decision-making gives the appearance of confidence. Women don’t respect indecisive men. Indecision makes you look weak, and the essence of a mack is strength. Boldness will trump over logic. Appear to know what you’re talking about.
When you make plans with women, be captain of the team.
Ch. 8 - Lessons from the Pimpin World
Earn/Reward Method
-Meet a female and have her invest something in you. Have her bring something else to the table.
-Above all, have her earn your affection.
Mysterious Mack
-The less she knows about you, the more she can project her fantasies onto you. Become a secretive, ambiguous figure in her eyes.
-A mysterious guy that they knew little about. Keep your encounters a secret.
-Become a blank canvas.
-Remember when Donna was like, “Oh, is it because you’re a writer?”
Ch. 9 - Upgrading Your Game
-Have cool hair.
-Have cool shoes. Critical. --Shoes are a nonverbal message. They represent standpoint.
Every time you’re about to do something, as yourself is this a mack behavior?
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